A personal invitation
Grow in Attunement Together
This 3-part live webinar series invites you into the signature letter-writing practice that Dan and Becky Allender personally use and guide couples through in their Marriage Retreat.
Across each session, Dan and Becky will teach, model, and gently lead you through this practice—creating space for you and your partner to slow down, find language for what matters most, and grow in greater honesty, care, and attunement together.
Between sessions, you’ll continue the practice at home, allowing the work to unfold over time.
Across each session, Dan and Becky will teach, model, and gently lead you through this practice—creating space for you and your partner to slow down, find language for what matters most, and grow in greater honesty, care, and attunement together.
Between sessions, you’ll continue the practice at home, allowing the work to unfold over time.
Dates & Details
3 Live Sessions on Zoom:
Feb 24 · Mar 24 · Apr 21, 2026
2:00–3:30 PM PT
Access to the recorded sessions is available through October 21, 2026.
This series is for couples who want more than good advice.
It’s for those who want language, practice, and sustainable movement over time with practices that help your marriage grow in more intimacy and attunement.
Across 3 live, monthly sessions, Dan and Becky will:
- Model the letter-writing process themselves
- Help you identify recurring conflict patterns and self-protective strategies
- Create space to reflect on how your stories shape the way you relate Guide you in reconfiguring your relational “dance” with humility, courage, and care
Each session includes teaching, guided reflective writing time, and a short Q&A with Dan & Becky. Between sessions, couples will write letters at home and set aside intentional time to read and respond to one another, which allows the work to unfold gradually and meaningfully over time.
You’ll also have access to the recorded sessions through October 21, 2026, so you can catch anything you missed or revisit the content anytime. Registration is per household, so we encourage you and your partner to watch and move through all three sessions together.
Across 3 live, monthly sessions, Dan and Becky will:
- Model the letter-writing process themselves
- Help you identify recurring conflict patterns and self-protective strategies
- Create space to reflect on how your stories shape the way you relate Guide you in reconfiguring your relational “dance” with humility, courage, and care
Each session includes teaching, guided reflective writing time, and a short Q&A with Dan & Becky. Between sessions, couples will write letters at home and set aside intentional time to read and respond to one another, which allows the work to unfold gradually and meaningfully over time.
You’ll also have access to the recorded sessions through October 21, 2026, so you can catch anything you missed or revisit the content anytime. Registration is per household, so we encourage you and your partner to watch and move through all three sessions together.
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